deepfriedjupiter:

As someone who’s in a relationship, and as someone who knows how to respect a relationship I would like to share to you guys something that will be appreciated by girlfriends, and boyfriends who are deeply loyal to their special someones. It’s okay to be friends with other people’s girlfriends or boyfriends, of course there’s nothing wrong with that… But the fact that you get to tend overboard is something that is already quite questionable.

We should all know our limits.

I’m a witness myself, and I think it is not right at all. Oo sige type mo siya, pero hindi naman siguro tama na landiin mo siya sa harap naming lahat? Diba? Habang alam namin na may karelasyon siya. Mas lalong hindi tama na tinatanong mo siya na hiwalayan ang karelasyon niya kung alam mo naman na sobrang saya niya sa taong ito, at walang question na masaya rin naman ang karelasyon niya sa kanya. Mali ang ginagawa mo, at sana alam mo kung gaano na nadadamay ang mga taong nasa palibot mo. Hindi namin alam kung papaano mo nasisikmura ang mga pinagagagawa mo. Hindi rason na meron ka’ng reputasyon na “malandi” ka para panindigan mo ito. Sa totoo lang, marami na’ng tao ang nadadamay sa ganitong klaseng pagaasta mo.

In a relationship, there is of course trust. But we also cannot deny the fact that sometimes there are other people who abuse the fact of that “trust” and maybe abuse the fact that the person is “nice.” But hopefully, the person who is in the relationship knows how to limit him/herself from getting involved into something that is wrong.

To that person: Please be mindful of your actions. My friend is already happy, their relationship is really nice. If you like this person, please know your limits. A lot of people think that what you’re doing is so much already just to even call it, “panlalandi” or “cock blocking.”

Remembering my late 2009-early 2010. Buti nalang he came back for me.

(via irishayne)