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4 months ago on January 04, 2012 at 05:54pm
Posts tagged relationships.
KickFlipsRocketShips: A common misconception that I’ve heard about long distance... ›
A common misconception that I’ve heard about long distance relationships is that the participants are settling- that for whatever reason, they can’t find someone to be together with in their own area, and so they settle for someone who lives not quite as close.
It’s my opinion that we’re doing…
Don’t ever cuss or scream at your girlfriend/boyfriend during an argument.
Just don’t. If you look closely in their eyes, you see their emotion change. It changes from fierce & uncontrollable, to lost & hurt. It means you have no respect for them. They’ll take it to heart. It means they’re no exception to how you act in an argument towards anyone; like they’re the same as everyone else. But it shouldn’t be the same. Once something is said, they’ll take it to heart, & just give up. Let me tell you.. it’ll hurt them knowing you can’t control your anger towards them, because they’ll think they weren’t worth trying for. It doesn’t matter who started the fight; your relationship should mean more than your pride.
(via kismetyouandi)
The Boyfriend/Best friend
Sometimes, when your girlfriend is feeling down, it is best to know that she can come to you as her best friend for help. When she is feeling sad, she wants to know that you are reliable. She wants to know that you still care. If she doesn’t talk, keep talking to her. Don’t let her forget about it but if she wants to drop it, just be there to support her. She needs to know that you put ‘friend’ first before the “boyfriend”. When she needs you at her lowest, will you be there for her or will you let her go? As the boyfriend, not only are you to be her lover, you are to be her best friend. She needs someone she can trust to talk to. This also is vice-versa for the girls to support their boyfriend.
(via wishingyouaremine)
As someone who’s in a relationship, and as someone who knows how to respect a relationship I would like to share to you guys something that will be appreciated by girlfriends, and boyfriends who are deeply loyal to their special someones. It’s okay to be friends with other people’s girlfriends or boyfriends, of course there’s nothing wrong with that… But the fact that you get to tend overboard is something that is already quite questionable.
We should all know our limits.
I’m a witness myself, and I think it is not right at all. Oo sige type mo siya, pero hindi naman siguro tama na landiin mo siya sa harap naming lahat? Diba? Habang alam namin na may karelasyon siya. Mas lalong hindi tama na tinatanong mo siya na hiwalayan ang karelasyon niya kung alam mo naman na sobrang saya niya sa taong ito, at walang question na masaya rin naman ang karelasyon niya sa kanya. Mali ang ginagawa mo, at sana alam mo kung gaano na nadadamay ang mga taong nasa palibot mo. Hindi namin alam kung papaano mo nasisikmura ang mga pinagagagawa mo. Hindi rason na meron ka’ng reputasyon na “malandi” ka para panindigan mo ito. Sa totoo lang, marami na’ng tao ang nadadamay sa ganitong klaseng pagaasta mo.
In a relationship, there is of course trust. But we also cannot deny the fact that sometimes there are other people who abuse the fact of that “trust” and maybe abuse the fact that the person is “nice.” But hopefully, the person who is in the relationship knows how to limit him/herself from getting involved into something that is wrong.
To that person: Please be mindful of your actions. My friend is already happy, their relationship is really nice. If you like this person, please know your limits. A lot of people think that what you’re doing is so much already just to even call it, “panlalandi” or “cock blocking.”
Remembering my late 2009-early 2010. Buti nalang he came back for me.
(via irishayne)
Long distance relationships.
To all of you who are wondering how its possible.
I’m not going to lie to you. Long distance relationships are hard as hell. It isn’t easy to maintain.It takes A LOT of trust and love to be in a long distance relationship. For all you know, the one you love could be cheating on you, partying all night with other people, or doing things that they said they would never do. But if you think know that person well enough, and trust them enough; go for it. Trust and love is the greatest combination in a relationship.
A lot of people have told me ” long distance relationships don’t work out.” That’s what i thought, but once your in one, you really want it to. And to be a little realistic, most of them don’t work out. But in my opinion, i think that they work out only if both of the people partaking in the relationship love each other enough to get through all of the pains of having arguments that can’t be solved in person and everything else that you can’t do. You can’t spend as much time together as you would with a person that lives 5 blocks away. Well, this is what happens to people who can’t drive or take planes every single time you want to see their loved one. For me, i only get to see my girlfriend once or twice a month. Sometimes, i don’t even get to see her. Yeah it sucks real bad, but what makes up for it is the feeling i get when i see her that one or two times every month. It is something i can’t explain. Something that you’ll want to experience in reality.
but in the end, it is all worth it. trust me.
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